ago today i got married to Linda, who passed away almost 4 years ago (August), if not for her, i'd never have pursued woodworking with the intensity i have. it was she who wanted/needed to have me build a new kitchen in our old home....well, i'm going to need some tools to do that. still have the tools, and have added more over time, and still enjoy spending time in my shop building things of beauty and utility, I just don't have her around to make things for. so i find others to make things for now (like the dining table and matching benches i recently completed).

you need someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to. if it's just about money, that's a lousy reason for making sawdust, there has to be a little love put into each project.

i know, not really woodworking project related, but some reason behind the scenes.....

She sounds like she was a wonderful partner.

Amen to all you said Dab, thank you for sharing a bit of your wisdom, and your life. 😊

5 hours ago, DAB said:

you need someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to

Love this.

Thank you for sharing about your wife and your start into woodworking. Always special to build items for those we care about and who appreciate the outcome.

On 7/5/2026 at 4:38 PM, DAB said:

you need someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to. if it's just about money, that's a lousy reason for making sawdust, there has to be a little love put into each project.

Well said!

That's been my motivation throughout 55 years of marriage. Most of my projects are the home/life improvement type - roll out trays, cabinets, murphy beds, cutting boards, etc., with some smaller items, but still with the same underlying purpose. For many years, it was also an economic necessity.

That's why I'm in awe of many of the postings here - the lathe turnings, the scroll saw art, etc. Truly beautiful and artistic creations that are far beyond my ability.

100% woodworking project related, and words for life as well.

I would not pick up a single tool if it were not for the love of them.